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Stories are the way we make sense of our lives—but we’re not always telling the right ones. Thankfully, psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Lori Gottlieb is a masterful guide for helping us rewrite the narratives that keep us stuck. Her TED talk was one of the Top 10 Most Watched of the Year, her book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone has sold over a million copies (and is currently being adapted for television), and she’s the author of The Atlantic’s weekly “Dear Therapist” column. Compassionate and charismatic, Gottlieb shows us that vulnerability isn’t a weakness, but a superpower for cultivating our healthiest, happiest, and most productive lives.
Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist who helps her patients unravel and change the stories that no longer serve them. But what happens when a therapist experiences her own personal crisis? In her brilliant book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, Gottlieb speaks candidly about her experience on both sides of the therapist’s couch, and in the process, guides a much broader conversation on mental health, vulnerability, fulfillment, and human connection—themes that are especially relevent in our post-pandemic moment. Called both “provocative and entertaining” (The Washington Post) and “irresistibly candid and addicting” (The New York Times Book Review), Maybe You Should Talk to Someone spent 15 weeks on The New York Times bestseller list. The memoir was also named Best Nonfiction Book of the year by O, The Oprah Magazine, was an Amazon Best Book of 2019, and one of the 100 Must-Read Books of the year by TIME Magazine. Gottlieb is also the creator of Maybe You Should Talk To Someone Workbook: A Toolkit for Editing Your Story and Changing Your Life. A groundbreaking companion guide to her bestselling memoir, the workbook offers a step-by-step process for becoming the author of your own life—complete with eye-opening concepts, thought-provoking exercises, and compelling writing prompts. “There is a reason people get stuck at the very point at which they are most ready for change,” explains Gottlieb. “Making a true shift in our lives is an inherently vulnerable act.”
On stage, Gottlieb is deeply relatable, disarmingly funny, and startlingly profound. She blends her clinical experience with real-world stories, fascinating research, and the latest cultural developments to lift the curtain on the mystery of our own lives. Opening up conversations about our emotional lives in a way that is both approachable and inspiring, Gottlieb shifts our perspective and creates powerful change. Her talks help us to find meaning at work, have difficult—but necessary—conversations, and tap into our feelings as a guide to living the lives we want.
In addition to her clinical practice, Gottlieb is the idiosyncratic voice behind The Atlantic’s weekly “Dear Therapist” advice column, co-host of the popular Dear Therapists podcast produced by Katie Couric, and a regular contributor to The New York Times. She has written hundreds of articles related to psychology and culture, many of which have become viral sensations, and is a sought-after expert on media such as The Today Show, Good Morning America, The CBS Early Show, CNN, and NPR’s Fresh Air. To date, Gottlieb has shared the stage with numerous emotional health advocates and thought leaders such as Katie Couric, Arianna Huffington, Esther Perel, Geena Davis, Jane Fonda, and Tara Westover. Gottlieb is also TED speaker, a member of the Advisory Council for Bring Change to Mind, and advisor to the Aspen Institute.