The future of tech is under our control. We get to choose what progress means to us—and how technology can serve it.

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We assume that progress means more tech: better AI for businesses, tailored algorithms for social connection, more personalized tools for students. But Gabriela Nguyen says that, at our technological crossroads, we get to choose what progress means to us—and how technology can serve our most meaningful priorities. Gabriela grew up as a member of Gen Z in Silicon Valley during the smart revolution. Her experience as part of the first wave of kids to grow up hyper-digitized led her to found the “appstinence” movement: a global social cause that calls participants to opt out of addictive technologies and develop sustainable tech habits. She’s been named to the 2026 Forbes 30 Under 30, collaborated with Jonathan Haidt (The Anxious Generation), and been covered in Business Insider, CNBC, The Wall Street Journal, and more. In practical talks, Gabriela shows organizations and individuals alike how to take control of our relationship with technology and pursue more of what we want: from better mental health to strong friendships to fulfilling work. “We all have the agency and capability to relearn as individuals—and thus as a society—how to function with technology when we need it, and not when we don’t,” she says.

Gabriela Nguyen founded the “appstinence” movement in 2024 as a student at Harvard, 20 years after Mark Zuckerberg founded Facebook at Harvard in 2004. As a native of Silicon Valley in the 2000s, her first-hand experience of the smart-tech revolution inspires her cause today; the aim of “appstinence” is to resolve the loneliness and disconnection that have resulted from unbridled technological adoption. The goals of the movement are to give people a sense of peace in their relationship to technology, and help them learn how to engage sustainable tech habits. The movement has supporters on all continents (except Antarctica), nearly every generation, and from all walks of life, including professors, stand-up comedians, and social media marketers. Her organization Appstinence employs a first-of-its-kind educational resource designed by Gen Z on how to unplug. Incubated at the Harvard Innovation Labs, the group’s “5D Method” gathers research in behavioral science to help participants achieve appstinence. The method underlies the organization’s coaching and educational hub Appstinence Academy. “Appstinence” was named in Adobe’s 2026 Annual Creative Trends Forecast, and the organization serves as a member of UNESCO’s Global Alliance on the Science of Learning. Gabriela was named to the 2026 Forbes 30 Under 30 List.

Through her educational background and personal experience, Gabriela approaches digital wellness with the eye of an educator who aims to make complex concepts of persuasive design simple for the everyday person. She holds her undergraduate degree from Vassar College, teaching certificate (CELTA: Certificate in Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages) from Cambridge Assessment English of the University of Cambridge, a master’s degree from Harvard University in Education Policy with a focus on early childhood, and is certified in child protection through Harvard’s FXB Center for Health and Human Rights. Her work explores a wide range of topics related to technology and well-being—from the ways that parents can better navigate their kids’ digital lives to the way that educational technology decreases reading retention. Her focus on ecological theories of development and behavior change science takes the normalized blame off everyday people for their tech habits, instead focusing on how changing our environments achieves true agency from addictive tech. Her work resonates with young people, parents, policymakers, corporate professionals, and anyone who has ever been mildly annoyed by their phone.

The “appstinence” movement has collaborated with Dr. Jonathan Haidt (author of The Anxious Generation) on a global campaign in which anyone interested in appstinence gathered to delete one account of their choosing, marking the first wave of a mass exodus from addictive tech. The campaign kicked off in October 2025, and began a domestic and world tour, partnering with local organizations in different regions. Gabriela has given a TEDx Talk and spoken at the New York Times Well Festival.

In addition to articles Gabriela has written for Arianna Huffington and Jonathan Haidt’s digital publications, the Appstinence movement has reached millions of people across outlets such as The New York Times, Forbes, the TODAY Show, Business Insider, People Magazine, Bloomberg Business, The Wall Street Journal, CNN International, Harvard Ed, WIRED, Fast Company, Yahoo, Mashable, and Newsweek. The “appstinence” movement continues to be discussed internationally.

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Less Tech, Better WorkRethinking Work-Life Balance in the Digital Age

Work-life balance is a high priority for Gen Z and other workers. But most businesses haven’t caught up. Gabriela Nguyen says that the companies that proactively shape digital communication boundaries and show respect for workers’ lives will gain happier employees and, ultimately, better work.

In this talk tailored to corporate audiences, Gabriela draws on her own experience as a Gen Z employee and now as a founder running her own team. She shares a fresh perspective on our youngest workers and citizens, showing businesses why the way they use tech might be creating a culture of “work-creep,” and how to change that to increase employee commitment to the company and culture. And she shows audiences why trying to get ahead on social media is actually setting businesses back (and why this represents an opportunity for leaders who are willing to think differently from the competition). In this new era of work, she says, the most forward-thinking organizations may not be the ones adding more digital tools, but the ones most adept at creating low- or no-tech systems that support creative work, meaningful relationships, and loyal employees.

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AppstinenceThe 5D Method for Reclaiming Your Attention—And Your Life

Technology touches every part of modern life, but too many of us feel like we have no control over how it impacts our personal, professional, and internal lives. Gabriela Nguyen has a solution: opt out of addictive technologies, and make sure the tech in our lives works for us.

As the founder of the “appstinence” movement, Gabriela has developed a robust framework for reclaiming your relationship with technology and using it to support your own priorities. Developed with her team at the Harvard Innovation Labs, her 5D method helps audiences not simply subtract persuasive technologies, but replace them with the things they actually want: time with family, passionate hobbies, meaningful work, and deeper relationships.

In this personal, practical talk, Gabriela explains what appstinence is and why your brain and social and professional lives benefit from it. She walks you through the 5D method, drawing on her own experience becoming appstinent and coaching other people to do the same, and leaves you better able to deal with the nagging feeling that you don’t have a good relationship with your phone (and the apps on it). Audiences leave with a more hopeful framework for digital wellbeing and a path towards greater attention and agency.

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Education
Attention Is the CurriculumRethinking Technology in Schools

Students are facing rising mental health challenges at the same time that smartphones, apps, and digital tools have become inseparable from campus life. Gabriela Nguyen argues that universities can address the mental health crisis from day one: by treating students’ relationship to technology as part of their education, not as a problem students are left to solve on their own.

As a member of Gen Z growing up in Silicon Valley, Gabriela has been at the front lines of hyper-digitization and the fight to make technology work for us. Drawing on her experience going through college during the pandemic, as well as her work experimenting with screen-free classrooms at the Harvard Graduate School of Education, Gabriela explores how media literacy and intentional technology use can help students protect their attention, mental health, and ability to learn. She also shows how professors and administrators can create screen-free or low-tech learning environments without ignoring students’ needs around disability, parenting, and access. “Giving professors and students agency over their attention creates a jointly curated learning environment that benefits everyone,” she says. This talk is a must-listen for anyone looking to help students learn and thrive in an increasingly digital world.

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